Eidul-Adha in Mina

November 17th, 2010 | Going Hajj,Photos | 5 Comments »

You can tell that I can only relocate a time to continue making posts about Hajj only when the Hajj season is in the atmosphere. If I were to write the ‘Hajj for Dummies’ book, it may take me 10 years to finish it. Yes, long live procrastination.

My previous posts I wrote about Hajj trip in 2008 can be found in this category.

Therefore, continuing the last post when we were in Muzdalifah during the eve of Eidul-Adha. One of the requirements of the Hajj task that we need to spend half of night at Muzdalifah, hence the stop-over and and having a kind of huge “picnic” under the night sky, whilst picking up small stones for the Jamrat stoning rituals.

Around 4am, buses came to fetch people to go to Mina, our next stop of the journey. And we were tens of thousands of Malaysian pilgrims alone, and again queuing for bus was like something you really had to face, and cant complain about it. It was rather a regret that we brought like a huge bag from Makkah to Arafat with food and clothings and now it was a pain in the ass to drag it along the rough way.

Location of Mina from Makkah and Muzdalifah. Full view on Wikimapia.

The whole area of Mina is practically nothing but a desert area filled with tents for Hajj pilgrims.

Two pictures above were taken when we visited Mina about 2 weeks before the Hajj days. It was almost empty, only the camps were ready to house pilgrims when the time comes (which is, today, 10th of Dzulhijjah, when were heading to Mina and were expected to stay there while doing the Jamrat stoning).

Arriving Mina, we were placed at one of the camps reserved for Malaysian pilgrims, which is located in among the Southeast Asian pilgrim area, therefore tents of Indonesian and Thais pilgrims were our neighbors. The Eidul-Adha was spent in unusual way, wandering around the street near the tents here. Because from the Hajj guide schedule, our group will be brought to do the Jamrat stoning only after night. So all we had to do was to get a rest in the tent before the time comes. Some independent people who still had the energy, already went to do the stoning early morning upon arriving, and even some were quick enough to catch the Eid prayer upon returning to Masjidil Haram in Makkah. You can go independently at your own risk if you know where you’re heading to, but bear in mind that millions other pilgrims were about to go for stoning and heading Makkah at the same time hence for safety the pilgrims guides had their different schedule to bring people by groups.

The typical view inside the tent. I know it looks like almost a nightmare, but that’s the point of this Hajj all about, to train you to be patient. You may not stand crowds like this in other place, but in here, you dont have choice but to accept things as they are, to be patient and keep the reason of why you’re here. Everyone is equal no matter how rich or big you are back at home. Then again, it’s easily said than done. Even my mum was having her hardest time queuing for toilets (which she can tolerate the least among all things). And I wasnt feeling the best of health at this time, even since Arafat actually, was having bad cough nonstop and uneasy to be in packed crowds like this, worrying that I might be disturbing them. Therefore, we chose our own way to go back to hotel in Makkah, independently.

We left the Mina camps earlier before the group, bringing our smaller suitcases (with trolley) and leaving behind the huge bag with food stuff in the camp. To reach the Jamrat place, one should go through this long tunnel (almost 1km) and another few more kilometers walking for almost 2 hours.

The nights here people were on street, along the camps of other countries we passed by (I dont know how they arrange the camping area for different countries in Mina, but it’s obvious that ours are rather far, but there are still ones that are farther away. Though we do notice that some camps closer to the Jamrat place were ones housing VIPs, kings and ministers etc, as well as those rich people who went on a more expensive trip package. Anyways.)

The Jamrat place building during Hajj season 2008 was still under construction, they were making 3 floors of stoning places, hoping to distribute the millions of pilgrims into several different place to avoid crowds and incidents. The event can be said real dangerous: imagine you’re in the middle of huge crowds where each and everyone was throwing stones to a certain somewhere, and the stones may instead hit people’s head instead of the aimed target. Needless to say, there were reports of death of pilgrim at peak time of stoning.

We chose the first floor to avoid the crowds – people tend to go to the ground floor, though in every floor of 3 floors the jamrat structure was rebuilt to be huge like this. The area was also made more spacious. There are three jamrah altogether – Big Jamrah, Middle Jamrah and Small Jamrah, to where we had to throw the stones one after another. (The jamrat place was in open air like in this and this before they built this 3-floor terminal building.)

Luckily there were not many people at this hour and on 1st floor, so we did the stoning at the most ease. For those who dont know, this stoning act is practiced in Hajj for remembrance of the event when Prophet Ibrahim (Abraham) was going to sacrifice his son Ismail, and how he met devil who appeared to stop him from continuing his task, therefore now pilgrims are throwing small stones to the very place where the devil was believed to have appeared, as if we’re stoning the devils themselves. The stoning act can also be seen as to ‘kill’ all the badness and evils in a man himself.

And as soon as we’re done with it, we exited the building and gathered in the street. Pilgrims were given a place in Mina camp (even though it’s pathetically crowded) because were are supposed to STAY there for next 2 days to complete the 2nd and optional 3rd round of Jamrat stoning, but my parents, me and a few other colleagues decided to go back to hotel in Makkah to seek a more comfortable overnight there (you go back at your own risk, and your own expenses on the transport, AND you have to come back to Mina again tomorrow for 2nd round of stoning). But we had to wait until midnight (12am) stay in Mina area as it was part of the requirements.

And while sitting and waiting I managed to buy some food at a fast food outlet. Good thing about buying food there, where there was like very long queues of men, but they have express-way for ladies with no queue at all!! :D (coz perhaps, more men were expected to have the task of buying food than women are) but it gave me a real good feeling! (too bad I forgot to take picture of the food outlet and the queues). And at another counter to buy coffees where huge men were hardly queuing, and instead pushing one another (!) it was almost impossible for a small girl like me to get through, but out of the blue I was offered by a neat gentleman to buy coffee on my behalf :)

ilyani was here, the Jamrat place in Mina, right after the first stoning ritual on the night of 10th Dzulhijjah. It was hardly seen as celebrating Eidul-Adha afterall, but 10th Dzulhijjah in here was even something. While people at home in Malaysia was celebrating the Eid and eating food, we were experiencing extraordinary challenges in order to complete the Hajj task in here.

As soon as it hit midnight, people started leaving Mina to go back to their places, and we were walking towards Makkah, getting a van, and eagerly waiting to reach our hotel to end this really tiresome day quickly.

This is a pretty long post for Hajj season this year. Selamat Hari Raya – Eidul-Adha mubarak from ilyani.net, and you may have to wait until next year’s Eidul-Adha when I can make next post about my Hajj trip :P

Malay Engagement

October 6th, 2010 | Az,Family,Love,Photos | 2 Comments »

I’m making this post for my friends outside Malaysia who might be clueless of the photos I put in last post regarding our engagement ceremony.

First off, the Malay engagement is more a family event than just a marriage proposal. Az’s family came all the way from their hometown for this purpose, bringing a number of gifts called hantaran. They are usually sweets like chocolate and cakes, fruits, clothings, accessories, as well as the engagement rings, all decorated prettily in a container. I dont know why this custom exists but it’s been around as long as I can remember. I’m personally thinking those are unnecessary, but since the family seem to ‘take over’ our engagement, therefore we just have to follow what they prepare for us =_=

And the ceremony usually begins with discussion among the parents or family representative, regarding the fact that their son & daughter are now engaged, followed by discussion of when and how the marriage (wedding!) will be held. So theoretically, they have come up with a date (or at least, month) but in between workloads of my master’s project right now I’m still in denial about it =.=; fearing that the expectations will turn from happy to nightmare, if I cant seem to get my Master’s done on time. Yep, we do agree that this came in a very wrong time. But as how I met Az, everything has always been unexpected, surprising, totally out of the blue! I really dont know, whether I’m so much ready for all these, then again I realized that it’s not important to think about that anymore as long as I’m happy.

After the discussion, there comes the time I received the engagement ring from Az’s mother.

Yes, it’s the mother who gives me the ring. Not him.

And same goes to Az, he received the engagement ring from my father.

And after that, the photography sessions, though mostly among the bunch of the family members. And then comes the food :)

Now you might be wondering, where’s the time of him proposing to me? Isn’t engagement is when a guy proposes to his girl? Yup, it’s practiced, but I guess it’s optional here since the family may be the first to suggest that their kids should be engaged. And even if a guy proposes to a girl beforehand, this kind of famiy-ish engagement ceremony will instantly come later.

So by the time this event ended, he still owed me the “typical” proposal. Of course, there have been talks regarding marriage plan and he wants to marry me and blablabla but I was expecting a proper romantic proposal like you see in movies!!!!!! ^_^

And during our quick escape to town after the family event ended, before I dropped him to car, and even though it was (again) unexpected, he did it. Proposed to me :)

031010: Engagement ceremony of Az & ilyani :)

October 3rd, 2010 | Az,Family,Life,Love,Photos | 6 Comments »

This is the surprise I was meaning to tell ^_^ I hope it’s not too shocking :)

To My dear friends, readers and strangers who pass by ilyani.net,

Az & I are officially engaged :)

Please pray for us.

p.s. these are the only photos from my Nokia =,= too busy to take pics, so let’s wait to get photos from other peep’s camera later.

Di Hari Raya..

September 10th, 2010 | Photos | 1 Comment »

Camwhoring di pagi raya.

Sleepy face thanks to stay-up til 3am… making my website for the serviced apartment =,=;

Hehe..

Now off to grandma’s home to eat something there, and later be back to sleep… yay.

:D

August 22nd, 2010 | Az,Love,Photos | 3 Comments »

Finally got Az’s first email from Sydney.. he’s alive and kicking, though 7 degree celcius sounds a bit too freezing to imagine.

It’s funny to recall that I actually last talked to him on last Friday afternoon, and today – Sunday – 2 days afterwards, it already feels like he’d been gone for a week! =.= So, say after 3 weeks later.. would it feel like he’d been gone for 10 weeks?? (I mean, 2 days feels like 7 days; 20 days feels like 70 days=10 weeks.. okay, am I making any sense? No? Nevermind.)

I cant help giggling at the first photo he had to send me. Instead of an Aussie landmark whatsoever, he chose to send me this:

I’m trying my best to keep his privacy and not to show his photos in this blog too much, but sorry I just HAD TO post this one :P